Sewing Memories
This Christmas has been a heart-wrenching one for my family as it was the first one without my Mum being present. Sadly, her dementia has progressed such that Dad can’t care for her any longer and she is now being looked after in a local care home. Mum doesn’t recognise any of us now and doesn’t know what Christmas even is. We took the difficult decision to leave her in the home on Christmas Day, where she has familiar surroundings and people, rather than bringing her to our home to be in the company of “strangers” who love her. It’s made for an emotionally-charged time for Dad, my sister and myself. The past couple of times I’ve visited her, she’s not quite been herself, which has been very upsetting to see and it’s really made me miss my Mum. She was a very creative lady and could knit anything! Among other things, she taught me to sew and to use a sewing machine when I was a child so I thought that I could ‘reconnect’ with her thro...